In an emotional revelation that has stunned fans, Ruth Kuganja, the younger sister of Ugandan gospel star Chosen Becky, broke down on camera while sharing how she feels segregated from her own family.
During a heartfelt YouTube interview, Ruth recounted being excluded from key family events, including a recent surprise birthday party for their mother in July 2025. Her story has since ignited conversations online about family, forgiveness, and the challenges of maintaining relationships in the public eye.
Ruth Opens Up About the Birthday Snub
Ruth revealed that she was unaware of the birthday celebration until receiving a phone call from her sister living in Canada.
“I thought she was joking because how could she know about that information from afar, yet I, who was on the ground, didn’t know anything. I told her she got the wrong information,” Ruth said tearfully.
She explained that on the day of the celebration, she called her mother as she did every year to wish her a happy birthday. To her shock, she later discovered through TikTok clips and social media posts that her siblings had gathered to celebrate without her.
“But to my surprise, just like outsiders, I found out on TikTok that they had made her a birthday party. My sisters were there. I used to chat with my elder sister, Daisy, all the time, but she couldn’t tell me. Even my best, closest sibling, Wycliff, couldn’t tell me, but they were all present. In the comments, people had noticed that I was left out,” she said, visibly emotional.

The Pain of Feeling Excluded
For Ruth, the most painful part was expecting her mother to call and check why she hadn’t attended, but the call never came. This silence left her feeling invisible and heartbroken.
“I had waited for my mother to call and ask why I hadn’t joined like the rest, but that call never came. That broke me the most,” Ruth confessed.
The young woman admitted that she didn’t know if she had done something wrong, but she expressed a deep desire to mend the rift and be forgiven.
A Plea for Forgiveness
In a dramatic moment during the interview, Ruth went to her knees and asked her family for forgiveness for any unintentional wrongs she may have done.
“Maybe the people who said I was being left out were right. Perhaps I did something wrong unknowingly, because even if I didn’t have money, I would have sacrificed something, but I didn’t know. I called my mum afterwards to ask why she hadn’t found out the reason I wasn’t invited. She apologized and said it is also a surprise to her,” Ruth tearfully explained.
Her plea resonated with fans, many of whom shared personal stories of family estrangement and reconciliation in the comments section of her video.
Fans React to Ruth’s Story
Social media users were quick to express sympathy for Ruth:
- “No one should feel left out by their own family. Stay strong, Ruth!”
- “Family surprises should never hurt. Hoping they reconcile soon.”
- “It’s heartbreaking to see someone so close to a star feel invisible.”
The story has sparked broader conversations about family dynamics in high-profile households, especially those of celebrities where public attention often amplifies private matters.
The Bigger Picture: Family and Forgiveness
Ruth Kuganja’s story highlights the complexity of family relationships, particularly in households under the spotlight. Even among siblings, misunderstandings, secrecy, or unintended exclusion can lead to painful experiences.
For Ruth, sharing her experience publicly was both a cry for help and a step toward healing. By acknowledging her emotions and asking for forgiveness, she has shown vulnerability and courage that many fans have praised.
“Even if I didn’t do anything wrong, I am willing to forgive and be forgiven. I just want my family back together,” Ruth said.
Moving Forward
As the story unfolds, many are hoping for a reconciliation between Ruth and her family. With her emotional plea now public, fans and observers are calling for unity, understanding, and open communication among the Kuganja siblings.
Ruth’s heartfelt revelation also serves as a reminder that family bonds can be fragile, but with honesty, vulnerability, and forgiveness, healing is always possible.
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