Nigerian singer Oyinlomo Diamond has expressed concern over fellow gospel music artist BBO’s silence following the death of their colleague and BBO’s close friend, Toluwanisings, urging him to take time to grieve without neglecting his well-being.
In a message shared on Instagram on Wednesday, Oyinlomo said she understood BBO’s decision to withdraw from public view but reminded him that his friends and the gospel music community needed him, too.
“I hope you know we can’t afford to lose you too. Dear BBO @officialbbo_ I hope you are fine?” she wrote.
Toluwanisings, whose real name was Bayonile Bolaji, died on October 14, 2026, after reportedly slumping at his residence. His sudden death came hours after he had attended a music concert, according to the supplied report.
Since the loss, BBO has reportedly stayed away from public appearances and online activity. He attended Toluwanisings’ tribute night on Tuesday but declined to speak to the press, with reports stating that he covered his face to avoid being recognised.
BBO’s silence prompted Oyinlomo to publicly address him, acknowledging what she described as the sincerity of his grief and praising him for not using his friend’s death to seek publicity.
“I understand this silence. I love how genuine you are even in death. I love how you didn’t chase clout with his death,” she said.
The singer also encouraged BBO to give himself time away from the public eye rather than feel pressured to resume his usual activities.
“You can take your time to reflect, sober, be offline and REST as you wish,” Oyinlomo wrote, adding that Toluwanisings’ sudden death could change how young, hardworking people view life.
Her message then turned to the importance of protecting one’s well-being during a period of grief. She cautioned BBO against allowing overthinking to take a toll on him, although she did not disclose any specific health concerns or medical condition involving him.
“Don’t be in a position where your health will demand too much from you because of overthinking,” she said.
Oyinlomo also reminded BBO that Toluwanisings’ immediate family might need his support more than ever following the loss.
“Remember, his immediate family needs you now more than before,” she added.
The message comes as colleagues and members of Nigeria’s gospel music community continue to grapple with Toluwanisings’ death. While BBO has not been quoted publicly explaining his withdrawal, Oyinlomo’s appeal underscores her concern for a grieving friend and the importance of allowing people time to process a sudden loss.
For now, her central message to BBO is clear: he can take the time he needs to grieve, but he should not neglect his own well-being in the process.